I've been with this guy for 10 months now. Things we're going great off the start.. go figure, thats how everything turns out or you wouldn't be with the person in the first place. First off, he started getting jelous. It was only small signs that started showing at first. Like, "why are you talking to him, he clearly likes you, or "I'd feel better if you didn't go out tonight, i don't want any guys hitting on you." At first, i went along with it. I mean, lots of people are insecure, infact, i myself am, being cheated on many times. I don't feel that my insecurity brings any problem to my relationship though.

So we moved in together after a short time, stupid mistake on my part. I stoppped hanging out with friends, lost my job due to calling in because i wanted to hang out with him, and started living a fantasy lifestyle. We spent every minute of the day together, which i think was one of the big issues. You can't be with somebody 24/7 and expect to get along constantly.

A close friend of mine and i were texting one night, he had just recently moved 14 hours away and we were trying to stay in contact as much as possible. He told me he missed me, and i obviously said it back. I mean, we had been friends for a long time, even before me and my guy started dating, so i didn't find it okay for me to stop contact with him just because i was in a relationship. My boyfriend went through my phone and freaked out, broke our coffee table, smashed my phone, and made me swear that i would never talk to him again. I was terrified, so i said that i wouldn't. And since that day i never have.

He has an extremely bad lying problem. About the stupidest things! Like talking to girls, or going out.. or even what movie he was watching when we weren't together. He talks to these 2 girls all the time, one a close friend, and another one being an ex. I don't see a problem with guys talking to their ex girlfriend as long as it doesn't interfere with their current one. But he lies about it all the time. I told him i didn't care if they talked but he promised they wouldn't. He still sneaks behing my back and does it, so it makes me feel like he is hiding something. So i told him i wasn't comfortable with him doing it anymore, he promised he wouldn't. And till this day he still does!

He also has a VERY bad anger problem. We just bought a new house together. He was going out with the boys one night, and i told him i wanted him to stay home with me, i was leaving the next day for a week and wanted to spend time with him. Also, i had a really bad flu! We got in a huge argument and he went out anyways. When he came home at 4 am, we got into another argument, and he destroyed our entire house. Broke all our new furniture we got, smashed all my perfume, destroyed my closet, ripped down all my clothes from it, threw a hammer at me!

I know he loves me, but i don't know what to do! I don't want it to end but i am lost for answers!