stalked in internet forums Posted: 03-26-08 04:42am
i was with an abusive double face woman .
she was trying to follow my belifs and she
started to change from one time to another
becaming very violent. she gone and no
more contact... no dialog, only on time in
msn where i asked her why this kind of
behavior and why she left home as that:
she answered me "it was time to go". after
months she reappeared with a type of fake
profile in an internet forum and said
things against my belief giving the
impression that she was victim. she use to
go to another one and i realize that her
behavior has changed she use to write very
well now not so well... and was there
often now only sometimes.
the problem is that after months she
started to go to an anonymus forum that i
ve been going for years... i started to
realize that someone was attacking me in a
terrible way... i dont know how but she
knows when is me posting. the thing is
growing and i do not now what to do and
that is becoming hard to me.she posted in
this forum a likn with my ex photo(prior
to her) scoffing her saying: how ugly isnt
it? and she went in her profile and
started to talk with my ex friends . so
scary that. this week she became more and
more agressive...adding communities
against my faith communities as: "i hate"
," i detest" and post evil things against
what i believe . thats hard to me because
i dont know what to do... i dont what to
leave the forum and i want she goes but i
want to if it s possible to discuss and
discover why she has this kind of behavior
and why she left home and what she did
after that. it a dilema . many thanks
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mominashoe
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Posted: 04-28-08 15:55pm
Women can just be very bitter and not
leave things alone. Maybe it would be for
the best to block her on MSN and stop
going to the forum you do. Most people
should see her for what she is: a very
bitter person, and no one will want to
hang around her for long, and those who do
aren't worth it.
Don't worry about what she says to you.
You know the truth about yourself and
whatever she says about you doesn't change
that. If you feel that you could still
contact her, you could say that you don't
care what she says about you: it doesn't
bother you at all. Or you could just drop
off all contact and not say anything.
Moving on and not caring is the best thing
to do when people get bitter and mad at
you. By doing this she wants your
attention, even if it is negative. So
don't let her know that you care. To you,
she is a nothing, someone you pass by in
the street and that will stop everything.
Sometimes its just better to be passive
aggressive.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 05-08-08 08:45am
Well, did you do anything to upset her?
Just a question. I know some guys can do
things to make women go off the deep end.
On the other hand, she sounds psycho! I
would report all her posts and speak to
the admin of the boards to get her banned.
I also think you can get a restraining
order on her if you can prove in fact that
she is the one stalking you. Another
thing, so you use the same sn for every
forum? If so, all she has to do is go on
google and type that name in and all
forums you go on will pop up....
Another thing you could do is just plain
flat out ignore her.
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Sukki
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Posted: 09-07-08 09:14am
even if she were to be banned, she would
perhaps register another link with a
different IP perhaps. but she wont stop at
her tricks. like my cousin, he had 2
experiences. one turned the tables on him
when he was on his diploma, another gave
him no peace till i pretended to be his
gf.
the best way would be to ignore her till
she gets tired.
