thanks guys. i really do appreciate the support.
I had REALLY bad period pain/cramping today that had me almost doubling over. I thought for sure this was it. I went to the doctors and he did another ultrasound, and my baby was kicking around madly. It was great. but also not so reassuring was that he could not tell me why i keep having these horrid cramps and spotting. (brown for last couple days) sorry if TMI. he tells me again i should be fine at this point, 11 weeks tomorrow. he was not sure if some of the black stuff around the outside of the uterus was blood, cause as he says his not a sonographer, but he said it looks pretty much like everyone elses......so i think should just take a breath and relax now.
i will keep you guys posted. thanks again!