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Q: Sore vagina and clitoris after first time sex
asked by: divine2k9 on April 8th, 2009
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I had sex for the first time last week and the next day found that my clitoris and vagina were slightly sore. But my period started a day later and it got worse. It is now even itchy and I feel a burning sensation when I pee. Is this a result of sex for the first time,or due to my period, which was very heavy?
We used a condom during sex, could I be allergic, or something?
He also gave me oral sex, does that have anything to do with it?
I'm a little concerned that he smoked before oral sex. Does this have anything to do with it?
My period has just stopped, so I'm unsure as to whether to see a doctor, or just let it clear up on its own.
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whitbyhill
replied on April 9th, 2009
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Sore vagina and clitoris after first time sex
its not unusual to feel uncomfortable after first time sex.

ideally you need to be moist , or well lubricated to reduce friction, and he needs to go in and out gently, not being rough.

touching the clitoris to arouse you is fine, but again it needs to be gentle or you can get sore.
was the oral before or after intercourse? because oral should be ok, unless he very rough with his tongue.
A burning sensation when you pee can be cystitus, which will need treatment from doctor or chemist.

see how it goes, if you still experiencing problems after a few days it might be as well to see doctor about it.
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sono86
replied on April 9th, 2009
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loss of virginity
i have loss my verginity because of having sex for many time with a guy but now m going to married with one another so m worried about my lossing verginity.
is there are some madicene or tips to satisfy my husband that am vergin?
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whitbyhill
replied on April 10th, 2009
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loss of virginity
it is a difficult situation when you want to present yourself as a virgin.
if you have already had intercourse your hymen may already be broken.

but unless new hubby is really going to scrutinise your vagina very closely, he may be unaware of that fact.

the real problems lies in that , if you tell him you ARE a virgin, and he finds out one day that you tell him lie, will he be happy to have a wife who not tell him truth.

maybe you could say that when you were younger, a man forced his attention on you and tried to penetrate, but he couldnt manage it all the way , because you were young and had small tight vagina as a virgin girl. So he stop, but did break hymen when he try.
That may be lie also, but it would be explanation for husband , if he thinks you are not a virgin.
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sono86
replied on April 12th, 2009
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LOSS OF VERGINITY BEFORE MARRIGE
I SURE I HAVE LOSS MY VERGINITY AND NOW AM GOING TO MARRIED WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
TELL ME A PECIFIC MEDICENE OR TIPS NOT A PIECE OF ADVISES.
AM WORRIED TO MUCH BECAUSE MY HUSBAND NEVER PARDON ME FOR THIS.
I HAVE NO TIME REPLY AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
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whitbyhill
replied on April 14th, 2009
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LOSS OF VERGINITY
marry on date when period come , so you bleed a bit. then he think you bleed cos you virgin and it your first time of sex
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blah12345
replied on April 16th, 2009
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um?
you want to lie to someone that you're going to marry and spend the rest of your life with? a lie is not the right way to start a marriage or life with somebody. if the fact that you are not a virgin is that huge of a deal to him then maybe you're not the woman for him. but if it's true love then he will understand and love you no matter what. just be open and honest. that's the best policy
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HeavyBleeder
replied on June 24th, 2009
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loss of verginity
im still bleeding a day after, is that natural?
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