Right a long one here, i will try my best to explain it!

been with my girlfriend about two and a half years, sex was fine to start off with, but after a year or so she started complaining of it being painful, and described it as tho i ‘didn’t fit inside her' anymore, and used to get sore after 5-10 mins of intercourse, she wasn’t tight or dry, its just like sex irritates her! one session, and it was off the cards for 3-4 days while things sorted themselves out.

Then she started getting sore outside once a week or so, and said she felt completely dry down there, but i think we may of put that down to the washing powder as there is only one brand she could use and they had changed the chemicals without labeling it on the box!

It took a lot for me to get her to go the doctors, but i just think there useless to be honest!

We have been to the GUM clinic once, and the doctors 6-8 times checked for STDs and nothing has been sorted, we have had numbing cream, (what the point of covering it up is I don’t no!!) a cream to thicken the skin down there, hormones checked, and now has said to go back on the pill and come back in THREE months, as she came off it thinking maybe this was causing it, this so far hasn’t changed anything!!

Basically, whenever we have sex, she gets red raw down there, she says its like it all inside, and there is kind of two pains, one if/when I go a bit deeper then normal, and the burning all around and inside her and it will be there for days after

Thought if I posted on somewhere like this someone may be able to shed some light on it as we are getting seriously hacked off that no one seems to have a clue?

Everything just seems to point towards some kinds of infection or something, but the doctor thinks different, and has said she has girls of the same age always in with the same problems and almost pointing towards its normal?

Any advice is going to be helpful!

Cheers

Oh and she doesnt tense up, or get tight during or before sex, just something seems to irritate her badly!