im 17, and im facing the possibility of being pregnant. Its very important that you remember that this doesnt make him or her a bad person. Its SO important that you dont judge either of them and you keep communication open. My boyfriend is in the military and I know that i feel terrible, i feel alone and i know that if i really am pregnant my parents are going to flip. they're not going to be understanding, or nice, or communicate with me. They're going to kick me out and im going to have absolutely nowhere to go. So it seems to me like you're doing a great job so far, just make sure that BOTH of them know you're going to support them, because right now thats what i wish i had. SUPPORT and someone to talk to.