Thank you, very much for the reply. The situation is, that the girlfriend says 'that is all he knows'. And again I'm pro choice, and her decision was to keep the child. But he seems to think he has a right to dictate other peoples lives, including my sons. This is a scary proposition. Because maybe he could be a good friend. But his rhetoric is to kill babys. Creeps me out. Since the relationship is 6 months past, I am starting to realize he has gone beyond pro choice and into "psycho ex" like you say.