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Q: someone i love is cutting
asked by: kaytlynn on September 8th, 2009
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A few years ago i met a guy he's helped me threw everything from when i had to go for a surgery to when i thought i was going to kill my self. he promised me that he would never cut and i believed him, but i ended up going to high school and we lost contact for a year and now we go to the same school, i know he dosen't like the idea that my boyfriend is 18 and im 16 but its getting out of hand. today i asked him what was wrong because he seamed to be up set..... thats when i seen the blood on his arm and i looked and seen there were cuts. i just dont know what to do, i was going to tell him and and my boyfriend were going to break up and i was going to tell him how i really feel, but im to scared, i dont know what i wound do if he died i really need help please.
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Tarimisu
replied on September 19th, 2009
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Well, first of all, what your friend needs is love.
He needs you to be there for him. After all, he was there for you.
Cutting is a complicated situation... I, myself am a cutter, so I understand the reasoning behind it.
Ultimately, your friend needs you to love him the same way you did before...maybe even more.
Do not judge your friend, that will only make it worse!
Oh, by the way, simply because your friend cuts DOES NOT mean he is suicidal!!
I hope this helps...
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