i dont understand? you just had sex and a song comes on and he started talking about some other girl? in what way? like he was into her or was it an ex?

ya but like the song reminded him of his friend. like i said it not bad but it bothered me alot cause he said it right after sex.

maybe he was just looking for conversation and thats all he could come up with haha...he probably didn't think it would bother you, like you said since it wasn't bad or anything

no it was random;cause we were talking about us.then he just came wi so do you think im over dong it?and is this a male or female.and thanks i do feel kinda better

over doing what i dont understand, is this your boyfriend? what did he say exactly?...i'm female

wel he told me when the song came on"oh this song reminds me of my friend amanda"and kept just talking about her.what i meant bout over doing it is but do you think im over stressing about it like?

yea i think you might be reading into it too much unless you know he's into her and you're still getting involved with him...then you're just setting yourself up for heartache..

will see i live in texas and my boyfriend lived over there for a year and when he came back we started dating. and "amanda" is from flordia.he told me shes gay. and thanks for your help. so you dont think i shouldnt stress bout it too much.

i dont think so..not unless you think he's lying about her being gay..i have to agree it wasn't the best timing or anything, what song was it? just curious

honestly it was a rap song,and i really dont remember.so you think i should forget and forgive him?

i really dont think he meant any harm in it like i said earlier, i think he was just looking to make conversation

k thank you i got go and clean lol.thanks you honestly did help. take care and god bless.

I'd say the boyfriend is lying. Not to make you feel bad, but it could be an indication that you're not as satisfying as someone else, he was thinking of her during the time to try to get into it. I know it happened after sex, but just cause you just finished sex doesn't mean that you suddenly start tinking about mowing the lawn.
It could be far fetched, because I don't know him, and he could just suck at knowing when to talk about stuff, but it's something I'd at least keep an eye on.

With sex, everyone fantasizes. Everyone does it differently to get the most pleasure out of it. Like I said, not trying to make you feel bad or paranoid, I just don't believe in coincidence so that's why I say it was one of those two things. Either way, it would be a problem for me if my girlfriend did that. It'd mean I was wasting my time with her or she just wasn't very bright, and it was still a waste of time. Finding out which one it is is the hard part.

Well it seems that the Coolidge effect might explain what you're boyfriend experienced. The way i explain to myself this effect is like this: the effect augments that given a regular male who just had sex, he will lose interest in the female he had sex with but will manifest interest in another female... in those moments. Now, to be honest all the way, that doesn't mean this augments the behavior of sleeping with women in a row, because our brain has an inhibiting character.
Here's more info: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effe ct