I met my boyfriend in october during our fall semester of our Freshman year. We have been dating for almost six months now and we are so incredibly and completely in love with one another. We lived in the same dorming hall so it was very easy to spend lots of time together and we slept together every single night. It seemed to work out so perfect and we became serious very quickly. We are both busy during the day with class and other activities. He plays baseball (NCAA Division 1) and I recently joined a sorority on campus, but we always spent any free time we had together. Just about over a month ago or so he has brought up future plans (marriage after college, kids, where we're going to live, etc.). I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him and I am so blessed to have met the guy who I believe is to be my soul mate so early on in my life.
But our relationship is currently being tested and has taken a HUGE turn. My boyfriend just found out he will not be receiving an athletic scholarship to play Division 1 baseball for our school his Sophomore year. His coach basically told him it'd be a good idea to start playing at another school. Because of how college baseball works, he has decided to spend one year at a junior college in his hometown of New Jersey and live at home and then transfer after the one year to another Division 1 school to play baseball. We are both extremely upset because I am in NYC and he will now be at a different school in New Jersey which is about an hour and a half away. We will probably only see each other once or twice a week (if not at all). I don't know what to do. I feel sick to my stomach. I am absolutely in love with him and we don't know how it will be not seeing each other every night I plan on transferring with him after he attends one year at junior college in NJ but I don't know if that's the best idea. We can't picture being without each other. I don't know what to do