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Q: so confused!
asked by: ixbeckyxi on May 4th, 2009
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Hi, i was sleeping with a guy i liked for a few weeks and then i fell pregnant, he made it very clear he didnt want it. He said he was going to support me which he came to the doctors with me the first time to see about the abortion he was very supportive at that point and then over night he didn't want anything to do with me. He ignores my texts and phone calls but when i see him go past in his car he smiles and waves at me and other times he just gives me daggers! I thought that would end once i had got rid of the baby but it didnt! im confused please help!
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ServiceU
replied on May 4th, 2009
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he like you, he was just having fun, you got pregnant "in his mind you broke the rules" even though he contribute to it. you scared the heck out of him, he wanted to make sure you got rid of it. but he's afraid of that happening again, this is why he's ignoring you.
that's why it's good to hold off on a sexual relationship until you establish a relationship with the guy. have you heard of the three month rule....take time to get to know the guy, you might find out you dont like him and dont want to have sex with him.
and another piece of advice is dont bother dating guys that have different interest than you, because that will only lead to confusion.
write a list of things that you want in a man. so when you meet someone i don't want you to settle.
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kyrafaith
replied on May 12th, 2009
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My advice is move on. This guy obviously isnt willing to pay once hes played and his manic behavior just screams that he is not ready to be in a relationship in which he might actually have to put out some effort or responsibility. He sounds like a selfish jerk who only wanted to make sure you finished what he accidently did.
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kissofangel20
replied on July 4th, 2009
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I agree with the above post dear...move on. He isn't worth wasteing your thoughts about. And for future ref. don't ever let a guy push you to do things you have no desire to do it will only wind up loading regrets on your shoulders. Please be more careful in the future and use two forms of BC to keep your body safe and so you won't have children before you actually have a loving and supportive partner in your life.
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