It's never "safe" to smoke while taking birth control pills. It really isn't "safe" to smoke, period.
My sister's doctor (we share the same doc) told her that she needed to quit smoking because of the risk of heart trouble/stroke. He recommended that she get fitted for a paragard IUD. She has never been pregnant either.
Just because you asked, smoking does not affect the pill's effectiveness in any way, shape or form.
Also, it is safe to have sex during the 7 day break off the pill. You're still protected. The break is to make your body have a period. If your pill doesn't make ovulation quit, you most likely would have already ovulated during that cycle. Ovulation occurs before menstruation, so you're safe.