theres nothing really you can do to enlarge your penis...thats rude your partner is that brutally honest with you..is she really even worth it? and so what if it takes you a few minutes to get it up..isn't that the point of foreplay? ...maybe you should reconsider your partner? or maybe she should be more verbal about what she likes other than she thinks youre too small...most women dont even orgasm from intercourse alone anyway! plus no one is a mind reader so how are you supposed to know what it is she does like?

Don't put too much emphasis on how large or small your penis is. You are only slightly below average, anyway. It sounds like the problem is more with the chemistry between the two of you rather than your penis. Talk to each other about what you like and don't like. Be creative. There are other ways to please each other....

If you are having trouble maintaining an erection, I've heard that regular masturbation may help you last longer. Also, being comfortable with intimacy is really important for both of you. If this continues to be a problem, go see your doctor, especially if it is a more recent development. It may be a symptom of another problem.

Your main issue concerning sex probably isn't the size of your penis, its the fact that you can't seem to hold an erection beyond two minutes (at least according to what you are telling us).

Masturbation helps you understand the limitations of your penis and thus can help you learn to control certain moments, but I'm not sure if it would help you with your erectile problem. I'd suggest going to a doctor to ask for the answers.

Try one of the Herbal Pills. There are several pills on the market. I like Endurnz. Its a mix of herbs from China.