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Me and my boyfriend were having sex and it slipped out without him knowing so when he thrusted back in it hit my anus and caused alot of pain.
I was bleeding and it now hurts really bad during bowel movements
What should I do?
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replied June 14th, 2008
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umm not much you can do.
Put some lube on it to make it soft.
Water based. OR SUPER LOTION.
Then maybe a ice pack.

But really only time will fix this one.
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replied June 14th, 2008
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OW!

Drink lots of water and you may want to take some stool softner. If you are still hurting after awhile then you should see a doctor. Are you still bleeding and how long ago was this?
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replied June 14th, 2008
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HOLD ON
Let me get his straight............you are having sex. He slips out of the "correct hole". Goes to put himself back in and hits the "wrong hole"? Am I getting this picture clear? Please someone, tell me how its possible to HIT THE WRONG hole? Especailly when this is the hole that should clearly be marked "EXIT ONLY"? EXCRETA comes out of this........ecoli....feces.... CACA....doo doo............of course its gonna hurt. Its a wonder you are not torn or have a rupture. I too agree with taking a stool softener and using maybe vitamin E capsuiles rubbed onto the area out side the anus. I'd give this about a week. If things do not clear up..........see a gyno Dr. or family care nurse. The bleeding should have stopped, as for the soreness...........I would not have a clue as mine DOES say EXIT ONLY! Hope things turn out well for you!
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replied June 14th, 2008
Thank you
It is no longer bleeding
It bled for a few minutes.
It happened last night,
so I'll wait for a few days and hope it gets better
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replied June 14th, 2008
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I can easily see a small slip happening since I've had some close calls.
The bleeding was really the only part you needed to worry about, the soreness will go away eventually.

Next time make sure your guy doesn't pull all the way out, that way he'll always be where you both expect him to be. Very Happy
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replied June 15th, 2008
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Fairy*Godmother wrote:
Let me get his straight............you are having sex. He slips out of the "correct hole". Goes to put himself back in and hits the "wrong hole"? Am I getting this picture clear? Please someone, tell me how its possible to HIT THE WRONG hole?
It's very possible. Doggy style, getting into it really hot and heavy, you're thrusting, she's meeting your thrusts, and then you get a little out of sync, and she pulls forward at the wrong time, and you come out too far, and then on the next stroke (there's a certain inertia to these things) WHAM!!!

OW OW OW OW OW!!!

We've been there. I can remember that night like it was yesterday.

No, trust me, there was no ulterior motive that night, though the bottle of gin we drank might have had some influence in the whole unfolding of events.

She was fine, incidentally, though it was a long time before we did doggy style again.
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replied June 15th, 2008
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2eatoria wrote:
Fairy*Godmother wrote:
Let me get his straight............you are having sex. He slips out of the "correct hole". Goes to put himself back in and hits the "wrong hole"? Am I getting this picture clear? Please someone, tell me how its possible to HIT THE WRONG hole?
It's very possible. Doggy style, getting into it really hot and heavy, you're thrusting, she's meeting your thrusts, and then you get a little out of sync, and she pulls forward at the wrong time, and you come out too far, and then on the next stroke (there's a certain inertia to these things) WHAM!!!

OW OW OW OW OW!!!


Couldn't have said it better myself... although maybe from a womans point of view. It sucks and unfortunately has happened to me before. I bled as well and was NOT a happy camper for about a week. Then we went right back to it! Although a little more cautious Wink
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replied June 16th, 2008
Thank god,
When it happened..
I felt like I was the only one this had happened too..
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replied June 10th, 2009
This exact thing had just happened to me. Im very worried. It was a pretty hard thrust and when it happened I went into shock. My hearing started to fade and I became very fatigue I could not stand up. I thought I was going to faint. I noticed bleeding and started to google some information afterwards. I came across something about a perforation, which is an emergency. I dont know how serious to take this. Any comments to help please!
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replied August 21st, 2009
Oh wow, I didn't know that had happened to anyone other than me... I feel a lot less embarrassed now XD Though I still feel rather ridiculous. I was sore but I didn't bleed (oddly enough).
Although, we haven't done it that way since.
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replied April 10th, 2010
Can a guy "feel" the difference. Like If he puts it in the wrong hole? (If hes not a virgin.)
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replied April 10th, 2010
I had it happen before when he had my legs above my head and my ass in the air and he was leaning over me looking down and he missed. Needless to say it hurt very much and I was bleeding. I didn't really worry about it cuz what can it do? It will be fine. It will heel in about a week like everyone said.
And yes a guy can feel the difference of which hole he's going in but when you're going that fast you dont notice how it feels until you've already hit it and gone in.
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replied April 11th, 2010
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Re: HOLD ON
Fairy Godmother wrote:
Let me get his straight............you are having sex. He slips out of the "correct hole". Goes to put himself back in and hits the "wrong hole"? Am I getting this picture clear? Please someone, tell me how its possible to HIT THE WRONG hole? Especailly when this is the hole that should clearly be marked "EXIT ONLY"? EXCRETA comes out of this........ecoli....feces.... CACA....doo


I'd be happy to not only tell you but offer you a helpful educational exercise to help you understand. Duct tape a normal sized cucumber to your thigh, have a friend hold a normal 8 oz wine glass between their knees. Now without breaking eye contact with your friend, see how often you can put that cucumber in that wine glass. I know from personal experience that it takes considerable co-ordination to penetrate a woman, likely a lot more for a man who has less familiarity with our anatomy and is feeling a lot more distractions during sex. If your partner is not very experienced or under the influence the sign on your butt may as well read "Parking in rear". Don't be shy about helping a man steer into the right hole with your fingers.
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replied April 11th, 2010
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From a 2004 study:

"Abstract

A postal survey was conducted of members of the Association of Forensic Physicians (UK) to determine whether accidental anal intercourse occurs in heterosexual relationships and, if so, whether intoxication by alcohol or drugs and sexual inexperience were likely to be causative factors. Of the 512 (47.9%) replies, there were 498 individuals who had had a previous heterosexual relationship and may have experienced accidental anal intercourse. Of these, there were 26 (7.2%) males and 14 (10.4%) females who reported at least one lifetime episode of accidental anal intercourse. Amongst those with a history of accidental anal intercourse, 79% reported that they were sexually experienced at the time and 83% reported that their partners were sexually experienced. Personal intoxication by alcohol or drugs at the time of accidental anal intercourse was reported by 43%, with 41% reporting that their partners were intoxicated.

Conclusion
This survey found a lifetime incidence of at least one episode of AAI in 7.2% of males and 10.4% of females. Comparison data between the sexual practices of the study group and the general population, together with theoretical considerations of possible selection bias, suggest that these figures are likely either to be representative or, perhaps, an underestimate of the incidence of AAI amongst adults in the UK.

Although this study did not set out to examine how accidental anal intercourse occurs, it does provide anecdotal evidence that sexual position and the use of lubricants both predispose to it. Further research would be needed to establish how important these factors are in AAI.

Intoxication appears to be a factor in less than 50% of cases of AAI and sexual naivety is relatively uncommon, the evidence suggesting that AAI is more common amongst those with more 'adventurous' sexual lifestyles"
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replied July 25th, 2010
I dont agree its an accident .Most of guys love to have anal with women.because its tight compared to vegina.
They say its accident then second time they ask did u enjoyed will have proper anal .
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replied November 7th, 2012
Big disagree there. My boyfriend and I enjoy both anal and vaginal penetration, BUT accidental anal when having vaginal sex is TOTALLY different! When you're not expecting it and aren't lubed properly It is bad news for both. It hurts me so badly that he feels offal for a long time. When he wants anal, he says so and we plan accordingly. Communicate people, and if you are with a man who would do this on purpose, lose him fast. Abuse!
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replied July 25th, 2010
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Ashikm, Anal sex is something much better done gentle and slowly. An accidental thrusting like that is definitely as dangerous to the man as it is to the woman. It is often the cause of a broken penis. This actually happens more often than you seem to think.

In a large study in Australia of health care workers (nurses, doctors and nursing/medical students) it was found that about 20% of them reported accidental thrusting into the anus. It was normally caused by vigorous thrusting and the penis slipping out of the vagina.

Take care.
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replied October 1st, 2010
How can people say is not an accident? of course it can be, I have seen it in porn bloopers twice.
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replied October 21st, 2010
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I know from experience that it is very very easy to hit the wrong hole in multiple positions if you are going at it jack-hammer style. I think I have done it 3 times in my life ( 35 ) always by accident. I honestly felt pretty bad about it. Unfortunately I have known a few guys over the years who think it's funny ass hell. There was a fraternity prank I heard about while in college ( I wasn't in one) called the Rodeo where a guy would bring a willing female back to a designated room where his frat mates would be hiding in the closet or outside ect ect . The frat guy would maneuver the sex into doggy style and when he was ready he would purposefully penetrate the anus instead of the vagina while yelling 'rodeo" . The frat brothers would jump into the room , turn the lights on and chant Ro-de-o R-de-o while the guy perpetrating the act would remain in the girls anus for as long as possible while she struggled to buck him off. This would be timed and scores kept. Yes this stuff happens.
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replied February 27th, 2011
Whenever having sex doggie style, have him cover the butt hole. I personally love anal, but yes, that slip hurts like a !**@!. When my boyfriend and I are doing doggie he just lightly covers my butt hole with this thumb (not fingering it or anything, just covering it so an oops doesn't happen.) It helps a lot, there have been a lot of close calls and thankfully his finger was there. It does feel a little weird at first but that weird feeling goes away quickly. Better to feel a little weird for a couple minutes then have a sore back end for a week. Hope this helps Smile
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