At my husbands request several months ago, I allowed him to fall asleep with his penis inside me. I would fall asleep but then find myself waking up having contractions and feeling his penis harden. This would go on for an hour or so before I would finally orgasm all the while he remained sleeping. Now he travels on business regularly and I tried sleeping with one of my toys inside and am afraid I have taken quite a liking to this........ seem to enjoy the feeling of being full inside. Is something wrong with me? Has anyone else done this?
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It is about personal likes and dislikes. The insertion of toys and foreign objects do come with risk of infection. Look out for signs like itching, altered vaginal discharge, alteration in color or smell of the discharge, rashes etc. The liking that you have developed should not interfere with your normal sexual life and pleasure or orgasms during active intercourse, so if you are finding any changes, try to get out of this habit.
Thanks for the reply. I did experience some of these discomforts you mentioned with a rubber toy I used to have but seem to have no issues with the glass one I am using now. I feel a bit odd about it but I really enjoy it. Hopefully no harm?
I ty for ur question but I would lov to ask u one bout the same subject. U c my fiancee and me want to try and sleep the same way wih his penis inside me but we r not sure how to comfortably fall asleep...what position is the best to fall asleep that way?. If u dont mind me asking
Spooning. With his penis shrinking after sex, the slightest move will however have him pull out. The flaccid male penis is not really made to stay in your vagina. It may be easier for you to spoon him and put your hand down his pants and cup his penis, or him putting his finger inside you and falling asleep that way.
hawkhun, There are toys called Ben Wa balls. These are small balls with little weights inside them. They go inside your vagina and when you move, the weights will move around and create a pleasant sensation. These are meant to go and stay inside your vagina for long periods of time. (Some women will walk around with this inside them during the day).
Never use normal rubber inside your vagina.
Never use ordinary rubber toys inside your vagina. Only special rubber is used in sex toys, an personally I prefer to stay away even from those. Glass toys are an excellent choice .
My wife & I fall asleep many nights connected. The best position and the one we always use is a scissor position.
She also has orgasms in this way. It is being connected
together that increases intimacy.She has had a number of orgasms this way. Several times she has squirted in this position.
This sounds incredibly steamy, but how does he manage to stay inside of you all night long? I am just shy of 7 inches when hard, but this goes waaaaay down when I am not turned on, lol. The thought of randomly getting hard and getting her off just by that is something I want to try!
it is impossible for his penis to stay in your vaging all night because his penis will not remain erect when he is sleeping! a flaccid penis will not stay in a vagina. maybe his tonuge will, but not his penis!
I had a boyfriend years ago that would nap (not all night) on top of me after sex and keep his penis inside. If we didn't rollover, he would often start to harden inside me and we would wake up only to have sex again. I can tell you that it was one of the most sensual experiences I've ever had. I hope everyone gets to experience it...
My wife and I sleep with my penis inside her about 3 times a week on our left sides spooning. I am a thick 8 inches hard, but am nearly 6 inches soft, so I can stay inside her for hours unless she lifts her knees too high toward her chest. Neither of us can orgasm from this alone, but we enjoy the nearly constant tightening and relaxing of her vagina and my hardening and softening penis. I have noticed that she sleeps deeper, snores louder, and unknowingly clutches onto my penis as I get harder and harder. We love this. After several hours of sleep our hips begin to hurt, so we usually have intercourse doggy style until both of us orgasm. Then we separate and finish the night's sleep separate. It usually takes us 2-4 hours to do all of this. I highly recommend it.
I do this quite often myself. I normally leave my sex toy inside of me while I sleep and lately I've been doing this every night for the past week and a half. I too like my vagina to feel full and during the night I will wake up feeling excited.
actually my orgasm time is too short compare to my wife so after orgasm am continuing strokes for completion of my wife orgasm and also stay my penis inside of vagina for 10 minutes and i think this is dangerous for my health because due to this my weight decreased 6 Kg in 4 month of my marriage time. after orgasm penis remain stay inside vagina may cause side effect on my health?
I'm 63. My wife is 59. I have an inflatable penis prosthesis. On of our favorite things to do at bedtime is for me to inflate my penis and insert it into her vagina while spooning. We fall asleep in this position often. We both enjoy the oneness/intimacy and sleep well, then wake up ready to proceed to the next step of our lovemaking. We both find it very exciting and fulfilling. Because it's inflatable I can keep it "up" for hours, days, weeks, well, technically forever! Guys, you just have to get one of these things. Medicare pays for the procedure that would normally cost about $10,000.00 It will invigorate your marriage and your wife will trail after you like a lost puppy. Sorry that sounded sexist.
Happy to find this thread. We thought we were the only ones who found pleasure in sleeping connected. Since we were married, my wife and I have a daily routine that is very enjoyable. I wake up in the wee hours (around 5am}, fully erect, and my wife spoons into me, allowing me the opportunity to lubricate and insert my phallus. We are both half asleep, and drift off while in union. When we wake up later in the morning we are usually still connected, and I have retained my erection. We then spend time enjoying the physical feeling of our connection, her contracting on my shaft, me nudging her cervix, culminating ultimately in a much needed orgasm. Some basic info: we sleep nude, my wife is a very willing participant, and I am large enough to stay in her vagina even if I become flaccid.
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