My sister was recently beaten up very
badly by her husband of 24 years.. He
attacked her with a knife and if my nephew
wasnt there I dont want to think of what
would have happened ..
Thing is .. she has taken him back .. She
said right from the start that 'It wasnt
him' and things just got on top of him ..
'she loves him' ..
Having come out of an abusive relationship
myself ( not violent to me , but mental
abuse and wrecked house ) I find it hard
to understand that she would not have
enough respect for herself and let this
slide..
They are acting like nothing has happened
.. yes he was arrested for it .. and the
date for court is this week .. he already
been up in front of judge twice and has
been put back for background checks.. but
as he now living back home and she tried
to drop charges Im guessing he will just
get a 'slap on the wrist'..
I just feel disgusted with her.. she even
has gone and got his name tattooed across
her pubic area ( branding I would call
that ) ( must add that the reason for the
abuse was that he was convinced she was
cheating .. next thing I know she tattooed
there ) .. She doesnt bother with the
family any more as she knows how we feel
about him .. Its my parents I feel sorry
for as they worry themselves sick about
her now ..
Ive kind of got to the stage of just
letting her get on with her own life..
havent seen / text / or spoke to her in
coming up to 2 months now .. but thats her
choice not mine ..
Sorry for the rant .. I just think I
needed to get it off my chest ..
Thanks for listening ! x
