I would just like to make the point that we should try and treat siblings equally - even small things like not associating one to be more artistic or mathematical or have any skill that the other one has.
I am suffering now and desperately trying to change people's behaviour when they speak to my sister and I in a pair. I think it's very unfair that she always gets branded and spoken to as being the most talented, most paintable, most sculptable because all she did was continue art right throughout her school education. Whereas I did business and humanties because I wanted to do something i found a bit easier Just because I don't particularly do art doesn't mean I'm not capable of doing it, doesn't mean I don't want to do it - I just never get round to it.
It makes me feel very disappointed when i look back at my past - school years - my 20's to think i spent a lot of time battling against people's prejudisms against my looks. In certain lights I look extremely pale, or podgy (fat) or i have a very slight bump on my forehead where I fell (in certain lights you can see a slight shadow) - my eyes are slightly misplaced against each other and look a bit even, one side of my face is fatter,one side of my face is wider and just because my sister perhaps ha a more symetrical look - although i would say I look quite a bit better than her and have a much much nicer and caring personality thn her - people still judge me a being inferior and I hate this. It afffeects me and makes me upset.
wow, person who says parents love their kids equally, you are not very smart. the statement you just made is impossible, because truth to be told, they're just human too. i go through favortism everyday. if i did half the things my little sister does on a daily basis my parents would disown me. how can you even assume something as false as that.
on another note, to the original poster, if it helps i hate my sister in nearly everything she does too. she thinks she's better than me, and that results in extremely bratty and obnoxious behavior. she treats me like dirt and expects me to treat her like a princess. i'm tired of her bs and two-faced nature which only makes me look like the horrible person, and i absolutely hate her and how everyone always says she's prettier because she like to waste money more and is skinnier than me and has long hair. she's really mean and cusses me out when i dont give her what she wants. i hate her.