Hi i am a single mom of 1 child and i am now pregnant again with number 2. The problem i have is the father we used to be the best of friends and he was extremely nice to me in the 1st year, cosinged a student loan, fixed my car, gave me money when i needed it and watched my son so i can go to school and work. Now i am pregnant and he keeps trying to get me to have a abortion he says it my fault i should have been on birth control, i tell him we are both responsable and now he wants to terminate his parental rights cause he cant afford another kid, and by the way he has another kid with his estranged wife who was born last week i just found this the other day.