Hi,
I am sitting here wondering why I am single and have never been asked out at age 27. I have been pretty content with my single life, until 2 years ago when I met someone I really love. We talk often, almost daily, but he doesn't seem all that interested. I don't know what he means when he says he likes me on many different levels. A while back, he had said he liked me a lot, so I got excited and brought up what he thought of us in a relationship and he said not to entertain anything and that he was too busy. Turns out being too busy meant that he was in love with someone else. That hurt a lot/still hurts a lot sometimes. For some reason, guys don't ask me out. All they want is friendship with me. I use to be confident, but that confidence has faded and it has made me depressed. My family seems to be wrapped up in the idea that I should find someone. That makes me feel like I am not good enough to be single. I want to feel confident again being single, because that seems to be the only way I have been going in life. If that's what I've got to live with, then why not be confident with it? Well, because I feel very lonely now. I pray to God often, I just want peace.