According to your description I can identify 3 major problems in your case:

The first one is peeing without will (urinary incontinence). Peeing is a complex neuro-muscular reflex and any damage of the spinal cord, nerves that innervate the bladder, muscles of the bladder, or the bladder’s outer sphincter can cause urinary incontinence. Urinary incontinence can be a sign of cervical cancer but in later stages when the cancer spreads on the bladder.

The second problem is irregular vaginal bleeding (spotting). Spotting can be due to functional or organic reasons. Cervical cancer could be one of the organic reasons. Spotting could be a sign of the cervical cancer in its early stages. Because you are HPV positive and have spotting you should consult your gynecologist as soon as possible.

Your third problem is anal bleeding (enterorrhagia) when having bowel movements. Anal bleeding could be a sign of cervical cancer but only in its latter stages when cancer affects the rectum.

HPV can be passed to the baby during the act of delivery. The baby is safe during the pregnancy.