Hi, My son he'll be 5 in July, He was diagnosed with epilepsy when he 2 weeks old, he was put on phenobarbitone, he was on it for 3 and a half years, was great for him he was sz free for nearly 2 years, but the month before the 2 year mark he started having sz again, eventually they took him off that and put him on Epilim and my god have things changed since on it, it started off with little things like fallin asleep in pre-school which he only goes to for 2 and a half hours. Then the behaviour problems. He has other problems other then epilepsy, but what they told me at the beginning hes after proving the doctors wrong he was doing so well in his development but since starting on the Epilim its gone down hill,he cant get through 2 and a half hours of school, i had to start giving 2 lots of sndwiches cause he was asking for his lunch come 10am and then when it came to everyone elses lunch he didnt have any sandwiches left, so i was a bit worried i took him to the doctors and got him tested it came back that he has a underactive thyroid so i was thrilled i had an answer to it all but they wouldnt put him on medication for it cause it wasnt that low, but i wasnt happy with that cause the symtoms were still there so i got his neurologist to retest him and it came back normal, so i was back to square one again guessing what it could be, then behaviour problems started, he start hittin kids in school which i was very embarassed by, and very shocked cause its not in his character, hes such a soft nature loves cuddles and kisses, which alot of boys wouldnt like to show,lol but he does. Then the sickness came hes still now getting sick most days, if he doesnt get sick hes has nausea, he also gets shakey even his eyeballs shake, he gets very very unsteady on his legs. I personally think it the Epilim but his neurologist doesnt think it is, see i had enough with it after one of these episodes i took him down to the hospital and demanded to see someone and get some answers they kept him in for a week ran loads of tests, EEG, MRI, blood tests the lot and everything came back normal, i had recording on my camera, see the little beggar made a liar out of me and didnt do anything like at home or in school, but anyone that know him, knows that hes not right, so i think they think im making it look bigger in my eyes then it actually is, but our lives have been put on hold, we plan our days to how he is, and after he takes him medicine in the morning, he sleeps 12 hours at night and then at least between half an hour to 3 hours in the day, i think thats way to long for a child to sleep, i know we all need our beauty sleep but no way should he be sleeping all that time, i think his neurologist doesnt want to take him off it because its keeping the sz at bay, he hasnt had one since last July ( touch wood) but surely this isnt right what he is going through, my heart breaks in 2 when i see him like this and see im a single mother so im constantly with him 24/7, not that ill ever change it but i cant go on like this for his sake alone.. Please can anyone help, im lost of ideas im constantly question myself... Sorry for the long message but once i get into it i cant stop, its all the frustration coming out of me lol...