I am going to add this thread to the Birth Control Forum to see if you get any additional help...Good luck...

Caroline

Sir,

Talk with her doctor. The divorce/cohabitation desire is because she wants some personal space, but can't verbally define the boundries with you. Give her a bed (move to another room, or have her - whichever is comfortable to her) and give her space for about 6 months. She is not in her right mind, as is evidenced from the ob/comp arm picking. This sounds like a testosterone imbalance. Take her to a gym where she can kick a heavy bag, with some light authoritave supervision. Be prepared to deal with a chick that fights like an angry dude. the test. will help with the sex drive, but anger will be the side effect. Hang in there, and show love. Rambunctious sex should be the goal here (with light hearts on both sides). She should be working out.

Best of luck, hope it helps...

-J