So just last night I had sex with my boyfriend, first time and everything. He doesn't believe in condoms or birth control. I woke up this morning I had no voice my throat hurt and now I'm coughing and really light headed. I don't know what's wrong with me. Any help would be nice. Please and thank you!
Of course it is your body and you make the rules, not him. You will after all be the one that will have to deal with the baby, not him. Or deal with your fertility if you get infected. So just stop it right now. Unless you want a baby of course?
Get emergency birth control pills as soon as possible. And get on the pill. Ask him to do an STD screening. If he does not use condoms with you, he probably never does. That is the quickest way to get an STD.
If you deep throated him, that may be the reasin for your issues. If not, kissing is an easy way to pass on infections and viruses. Treat is the same way you would have without the sex.
I did not deep throat him. I have kissed him many times and never got a sore throat. And I'm trying to go on birth control but how do I tell my mom why I wanna be put on it? If my dad ever found out I was taking birth control he would kill me since I still do live with my parents. I'm just truley scared at the moment because I do love and care for him and the things he says and does for me makes me believe that he loves and cares for me too. I just dont wanna end up with a baby I'm not ready for.
If your dad will be upset if he finds out you are on the pill, imagine how bad it will be if he finds out you are pregnant! I suspect that will be the last time you will see your boyfriend. One thing is a fact, keep on having sex without protection and you WILL end up pregnant and you will have to face your parents.
If he loves and cares for you, he should have no problem putting on a condom if you allow sex. You take the risk, he will have to take the responsibility. Explain to him what your father will do to him if he makes you pregnant.
If you can talk to your mom about it, do. Explain to her that you want to be responsible, and that is why you are asking. It is always the best way to handle it. If not, you can get the pill for painful or heavy periods, irregular periods or skin problems (oily, sits and ache)