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Q: Shy Girls?

asked by: WilliamCam on October 13th, 2009

New User

Hi,

I met this girl at work and she seemed kind of shy. Whenver we talk she her tone of voice is always a softer tone, smiles, laugh and also stares down alot. After talking for awhile, she would talk about herself, family and also about her concerns. Once in awhile, she would hit me on my shoulder if I make a joke. I've notice whenever she talks to other guys she's more loud, talks faster and less reserved. After 6 months, she's still the same towards me, talks softly, smiles and still look then stare down.

Anyone know why she does that towards me and not towards other guys? Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks/Bill

Replies(9)

W0LF

replied on October 14th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Laughs at your jokes
Behaves more feminine around you
Makes physical contact

She has a more intimate relationship with you than other men. Strong signs of physical attraction.

satloves1

replied on October 14th, 2009

New User

i'm a girl so i would know and i find that i sort of do the same thing it's just because she is totally into you she likes you very much and wants to get to know you more than any other guy she talks to at your work the way she is acting should tell you that it is obvious

MyrahU

replied on October 14th, 2009

Active User, very eHealthy

She's not quiet around the other guys shows she's not nervous around them because she isn't interested in them. She's talking to you about her family and concerns in her life shows that she feels comfortable opening up to you. If you like her too, ask her out. It's been six month of flirting. Stop torturing the poor girl and take her for coffee. Smile

W0LF

replied on October 14th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Oh I don't agree there.
Work is a bad place to pursue romantic relationships. It's not even a terribly good place to make friends. I realize a lot of folks work more than anything else and work becomes their primary social circle but romance crosses a line as far as most HR departments are concerned. I'd suggest you never date at a job that you wouldn't be willing to hand in your resignation at tomorrow.

satloves1

replied on October 14th, 2009

New User

thats true nevermind but if he wants to just have some fun he should hang out with her and become friends who value eachothers company

WilliamCam

replied on October 15th, 2009

New User

Regarding Work......

Thanks guys! I do understand work is not a great place to date but my situation might be different. Both of us at our workplace is a part time/temporary job. We are both in school(different schools....I'm in 1st year of grad school and this is her last year in undergrad) and this place of work is just a temporary job while in school.

lsu1on1

replied on October 15th, 2009

New User

The question you need to ask yoursely. Are you interested in her? eveientally she is into you. You should enen ask her the same question you posted. I bet she will tell you whats on her mind.

woops

replied on November 3rd, 2009

Experienced User

Stay friends.

She isn't to be trusted.

Thats good advice.

ServiceU

replied on November 8th, 2009

Supporter

i think you should try to talk to her before some other guy snatch her up.
dont listen to woops!!!!!

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