On August 16th which was technically the 17th I had met a guy at a bar of all places. and well one thing of course led to another and here I am almost 31 weeks pregnant. I'm due May 19th which is 2 days and 9 months later from when him and I well you know. Anyways here's my delima everything was fine we never were dating but since he found out I was pregnant he'd be okay with picking me up and taking me to appointments.Then all of a sudden on our way to a doctor's appointment he tells me he wants nothing to do with this baby at all. Now do u think i have a right to tell his parents about the baby because I have a feeling he hasn't told them. And not only that do you think as well that its only fair that they have the choice to be in this baby's life even if he doesn't want too be??? I mean i undersatnd that he wants a paternity test done thats fine i'm not willing to pay for it i know that he's the baby's daddy. just thought that maybe his parents would like to be a part of this baby's life even if he doesn't want to be..
I think you need to give him more time. I'm assumming your both young and it's a normal reaction for him to be unsure, scared or in denial. You may be 100% sure it's his...but let the test speak for itself, once he sees it truly is his child I'm sure he will tell his parents so I don't think making a move on your end right now is very wise. So just wait for the test and in the meantime file the proper paper work for child support and such.
i would tell! if you do what harm would that do! but then again when i m pissed off i make bad choices. what if they dont know? they have the right to know. and knowing me i would try to be nice but have a few choice words.
how did you find out where his parents live? do he live with his parents? are you hoping his parents will talk since into him?
be careful with the next person you meet. make sure you know them well and y'all have like interests.
So how are you? I am sure you have your hands full with a lil one a lil over a week old now. If the baby's father is still pursuing a DNA test then let him seek the legal direction for that. I would love to hear how things are going.
tell his parents for one you dont have a choice to tell yours why should he and 2nd im pregnant i was with the guy for 8yrs he deceided he didnt want to be with me anymore and started a relationship with someone else i am heartbroken his mom wants the baby she wants me to move in with her she will help as much as i want even pay for daycare and she dosent have any money she was going to get a loan and she is pissed at her son even though me and her havent had the best relationship so tell them they may want the baby and why shouldnt the baby no his grandparents because his dad is am ahole shoot i wish i could change my mind and not have the baby but im 35wks i cant im in pain by myself while he partys and drinks and gets laid with some girl