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Q: Should I persue a girl who already has a boyfriend

asked by: Homer4life on January 31st, 2009

New User

Hey, I'm 16 years old and Ive really had only one real girlfriend. My problem is Ive been friends with this girl for about a year and we get along real well and Ive realized meby 8 months ago that I have feelings for her. The problem is she already has a boyfriend and I don't want to be a jerk trying to break up them up or something. I can't stop thinking about her though and I know that she has feelings for me. We've even ended up going on "Dates" where through one way or another we've ended up having dinner and walking around the park or going to a movie or something. I'm just not sure what I should do from here, so any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks, Will

Replies(6)

saw19842002

replied on January 31st, 2009

New User

Is she sneaking around behind her bfs back to go on these "dates" with you? If so, that's a red flag right there, because if she does this to her bf to spend time with you, she'll prolly do it to you to sneak around with some other guy.

My opinion is to leave this girl alone...you never try to date a girl or even a guy who is dating someone else. That's like a no-no Smile

vulcan

replied on February 1st, 2009

Experienced User

Never if you are a real man

Real man do not lust after another man woman. Period

ServiceU

replied on June 11th, 2009

Supporter

if you were my son i would tell you to stop. why? because things come back on us. for example years from now you might fall in love with this girl, and she might be dating someone else behind your back. this may hurt you, and you might think about the chick's b/f and how he mustve felt.

a lot of older people go through these "you reap what you sow experiences" and it makes them a conscious person. so maybe one day she'll be single, or you can find someone else.

bigbrucey2

replied on September 29th, 2009

New User

Dont do it,karma will come around,and plus i dont think you would want a girl doing that to you.

W0LF

replied on September 29th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

There are a lot of reasons that this is a horrible idea. key amoung them is that this girl doesn't need a boyfriend and if you're around for her when she doesn't need you you'll very unlikely be in considderation when she does need another boyfriend. Pursue girls who have a romantic interrest in you. You'll be much happier in life.

nonesense

replied on October 22nd, 2009

New User

Gils with bf's

If the girl is opened to being pursued that means that she is not happy with her current bf. Go for it--only if you see clear signs that she is striving for attention and romantic interest from you. A bf is not the same as a husband.

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