Relationships and Marriage Forum - Should I continue ?

I meet my boyfriend and he is 24. I am 20 .We started our relationship 2 weeks ago.He was so romantic passionate and I loved him. then after a week he becames so strange. he did not talk as usual and he stopped even sending text messages. I called him and I found that he is really depressed. He said that he sleeps for too long every day. He can not concentrate and he cries a lot. He also told me that he got headache from thinking.And the problem is that before he knew me he knew another girl and they loved each other but could not continue because of family problems. he says that he feels so guilty towards that girl not that he does not love me but as he knew that this girl is suffering due to their breaking up.
I don't know what to do ? how to deal with him ?
should I continue ?or leave him specially that his depression is refelected on me and I feel so depressed also.

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CarolineEF

replied on October 30th, 2009

Moderator

My suggestion would be move on...When anyone is in a relationship that does not feel right, then something isn't right...Listen to your inner self...Don't second guess yourself to make it right...Life is difficult enough without carrying someone else's baggage...Good luck....

Caroline

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J3nnyuk

replied on November 1st, 2009

Moderator

I totally agree with caroline....You need to be with someone whos mind is fixed on your relationship and nothing else good luck hun..Jenny

tieleg

replied on November 3rd, 2009

New User

You have only known him for 2 weeks so you don't love him. He may just be trying to get you to leave him. So the best thing that you can do is leave him before he starts to make your life miserable. Go and find someone who want's you, not someother girl

ServiceU

replied on November 11th, 2009

Supporter

It's also a possibility that he is also suffering (still in love with his ex), that's why he's depressed.
i would be afraid to date someone who just broke up with someone, thinking im his rebound.

There's nothing wrong with being depressed, but there's something wrong with crying over your ex while with someone else.
He can feel bad about his ex, but continue dating you, the point that he stopped....is a red flag that something is going on. Run!!

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