As far as I've known, my boyfriend has been extremely loyal...however, he does do things that make me wonder if I'm being cheated on. When I voice my opinion about these matters, he tells me there's nothing to worry about...but I'm not so sure.
In high school he had this previous relationship with another girl. Then he started going out with me (after they broke up). They remained good friends and I was always uncomfortable around them. A year and a half after we started dating I found out he switched all of his classes around so he could be with her (it was a teacher aide class and they were un-supervised). They would ditch school together and go get lunch, etc. Sometimes him and his friends would all go to her house and I wouldnt tag along because I personally couldnt stand her. The day before I left to go to an event at MSU for the week (I wanted to see him because I'd be missing him for 7-8 days), he was in such a hurry to get over there that he dropped me off in his driveway so I could drive home, and was backing out before I'd even shut the door.
Now his best friends girlfriend is his new "buddy". They have every class together, they drive to school together, they hang out alone together. Should I be worried? She's quiting her old job to come and work at the same place as he is. One day while I was lying in his bed I found 7 or more condom wrappers hidden behind the books above his bed. There's no way we've had sex THAT many times. I don't even like it that much. It just seems like its a repeat of last time.
My question is...am I too overprotective and paranoid? Shouldn't he at least have backed off a little when I expressed my concern? Am I expecting too much? What do you guys think?
