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Q: should a threesome be a way to solidify relations
asked by: WoWlvr on August 31st, 2009
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should a threesome be a way to solidify relations with a cheating BF/GF
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homerx
replied on September 2nd, 2009
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no
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deteragram
replied on September 2nd, 2009
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I don't think threesomes would satisfy the urge to cheat for some people. Part of the thrill and lure of cheating for habitual cheaters is the sneaking around, the forbidden fruit, and the chance to have sex wirth someone other than their spouse/ significant other.
Even if these are not reasons that your partner cheats, are you prepared to continually share your partner and your bed with another? Once you start it, do you really think your partner will be content to be one- on- one with you? Also, what if the other person is more atractive than you? Better in bed? Has a better body? What if your partner wants to include the other person more than you are comfortable with?
I just don't see threesomes as something that will help your problem; I see threesomes as something that will make it worse.
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W0LF
replied on September 2nd, 2009
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It should be! That would be awesome. Threesome therapy!
But in reality they apply a massive strain to the relationship, requirming acceptional attention to detail and communicaiton to survive. If you have a threesome when the relationship is in distress it is the equivelent of curing a headache with a baseball bat to the head. It may not fix the problem that's giving you a headache, but if it doesn't kill you outright you'll never whine about the headache again.
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deteragram
replied on September 3rd, 2009
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lol WOLF. You have such a way with words.
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