I am having trouble in this department also, my girlfriend shaves because she says her doctor told her to avoid bladder infections, I don't like it, find it not sexy or mature looking, doesn't have to be a forest, but not bare, I raised 3 children, 2 are girls and seeing the diaper changing and then bare pubic area is the same thing, takes away from the making love but she won't compromise.... don't know what to do because I do love her, been with her for 5 months but this troubles me and her not understanding my feelings hurts also... any help here would be appreciated..