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What is more important to you?
Your pleasure
Your Partner's Pleasure
It's a tie
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Total Votes : 18
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Q: Sexual Pleasure
asked by: Maddie34 on May 22nd, 2008
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What’s your stance in terms of who's pleasure in more important during sex?

Your Pleasre: if your partner is satisfied then it's just an bonus for them.
Your Partner’s Pleasure: Your partner's happiness is the most important to you
It's a tie: Both your pleasure and your partner's pleasure is equally important to you.


Feel free to leave some comments and elaborate.
Men, please vote too!


Last edited by Maddie34 on May 22nd, 2008 02:28 PM; edited 1 time in total
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Marianne0558
replied on May 22nd, 2008
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Sorry but since I am the lady, it is his job to make sure I am satisfied first and foremost!
No elaboration needed LOL

I wear the pants in this relationship dammit and get me a beer
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Georgia59
replied on May 22nd, 2008
Especially eHealthy
I could go any way-

Focus on myself, because, well, if I don't, it might not happen.

Focus on my partner because if we both focus on eachother, we'll have a great experience.

It's a tie, a little give and a little take.

I could say any!
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antigone
replied on May 23rd, 2008
Extremely eHealthy
For me it's a tie. I want him to have a mind blowing experience but I want to as well. My husband is really wonderful and makes sure I am satisfied. It makes the whole experience better when both people are focused on pleasing each other.
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Granps
replied on May 25th, 2008
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Sexual Pleasure
It's always my desire to have my lady have multiplleo orgasms before I have mine. She tells me when she 's ready for me to cum. It's very pleasurable for me to know she has had a great ride. I will use oral, finger, or what every turns her to the highest emotion of pure sexual desire.
Love it.
Boy does she go... Smile
She also loves for me to go down on her afterwords. She calls this recycling the pleasure.
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freakyfashionista
replied on July 17th, 2008
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I focus on my pleasure because it's so easy NOT to have an orgasm (I'm a woman, btw! so you girls know what I mean). He will always have an orgasm if we have sex but I won't unless I or we try (usually it's if I try, since he jokes about giving up on giving women orgasms, joking but serious too). Are there any women who have orgasms spontaneously without even trying??? I'd love to be one of them! But I'm not sure they exist, really! :0
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Sydney123456
replied on July 17th, 2008
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His, without a doubt.

During sex...there is pleasure for me, but it's not any type of pleasure that would make me orgasm. I mean, I enjoy it and it feels good but nothing beyond that.

If I focus on my, I get really frustrated. I mean, frustrated to the point where I just stop everything. For a while, he put a lot of pressure on me to have an orgasm(lovingly, not demanding), and every time I didn't...I got so upset I would cry. For some reason, if I don't orgasm during times I think I should...I get really upset.

So- to avoid my getting upset, it's all about him. How to make him feel good but also make it last longer.
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katrina2008
replied on July 21st, 2008
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Right....I agree with you....But why do they demand a woman to have an orgasm?..What does it do for the guy?..or is it just certain ppl?
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katrina2008
replied on July 21st, 2008
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Ok..Now that I remember let me ask this...Sometimes while I'm having sex with my bf, I feel so but soo wet down there inside me...Somwtimes its even uncomftorable,,,feels weird....is it me?...or him???
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qpoo
replied on July 22nd, 2008
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his pleasure
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