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Q: Sexual imagery
asked by: ThatRandomGuy123 on November 2nd, 2009
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I've been in a relationship with my guy for a a little over... 5 months now. As far as the relationship goes, he and I very much enjoy it. We kind of both found out we were bisexual together, which was a real plus, and really made things easier for us in my opinion.

As far as sexual activity is concerned, I think ours is a little strange compared to others. It's generally more based on imagery, our imagination, and whatnot, rather than the sexual contact. Now don't get me wrong, there certainty is sexual contact, but from what I've gathered around the community (here, and other places), it's significantly less than what the norm would be for a relationship.

I am definitely enjoying it, but I sometimes wonder if such a heavy emphasis on the imagery in the sexual part of the relationship will hold us through the entire thing, or if it will fade and the relationship would fall apart. We're definitely there for each other for more than just the sexual part. He's helped me through quite a bit emotionally, and I'm always there for him, so yeah.

Input?
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W0LF
replied on November 4th, 2009
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When you say the Sex is based on Imagery, are you saying that it feels like more of a physical relationship than emotional? Are you referring to a shared interrest in pornography? I guess I'm not quite understanding whats becomming a concern to you here? Could you be a bit more specific about what the problem is?
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