hi im 25 and i have the most amazing boyfriend and we plain on getting married it couldnt be better but to every perfect story there is always one problem everytime we make love i get to the point where im about to lose control and about to have an orgasm but instead i get scared and start to cry and kill the mood and he always ends up with what they like to call " blue balls" am i messed up or not healthy please can some one help me