We started off our relationship having sex twice a day. after 4 months or so, due to time, we decided to stick to once a day. that lasted for the next 6 months. But now, in the few 3 months, my boyfriend doesn't even want to have sex with me. Mostly because he is tired from work but he isn't tired enough because he plays video games all night or chats online or jokes around with friends. Since he is gone every day of the week day, I end up doing all his chores, my chores and the entire house work inside and out of the home I'm staying in. On top of that I have a job every week day, but I get to sleep in abit more than he does but I cant, because when he wakes up at five I make him his breakfast and lunch and i have so much trouble falling back to sleep.
Everytime I'm in the mood, he just looks at me like Im a piece of garbage, and boom, i get mad. I have to even dress up in these frilly lingerie to even start to turn him on these days. But he has broken the line last night. He said he needs a break from my sexual desires. Its been 3 days since we had sex and I told him " I'm sorry if you turn me on. " I hate shaving everywhere and putting on lotion and taking birth control if he's not even interested. But most of all, I feel like garbage about myself and wonder if I'm adequate. Last time I was ontop he said I'm not doing a good enough job. Everytime Im ontop, I work as hard as I can for him. I only get tired after 10 minutes, it usually takes him around 10-15 minutes and in the last 5 minutes when i AM tired, I work extra hard because i want him to be happy. When he's ontop, when he used to be, he only lasted 5 minutes. When we used to have sex,I did whatever he wanted me to, even if Ive had bad experiences with it in the past, and even if i dont like it, just because Im willing to. He doesnt even have to do any work sometimes when I really want it. But Im confused as to why he wants quits. He said all the times we've ever had sex is because ive forced it upon him and I know for a FACT that is not true. Ive asked for it more than he does but i know that when he wants it, even if im in sooo much pain and say no seriously, he will keep doing inappropriate things to me all night and i dont get any sleep until he gets his way. When i said this to him he said "well im sorry if youre such a F* horny B*" or "Youre such a wh0r3" Which I really am not, I stay true to him, and I respect it when he isn't in the mood. I back off.
Im so worried he's cheating on me but after many many fights Ive learned his WORD is good, but Im still curious about his actions. He's made alot of broken promises in the past.
Anyways, Im really tired of not having any sex and I know its only been three days, but im young, and carefree and I really enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Im just confused as to why all of a sudden, he isn't. I barely get to see him as is, and now, I get to be with him even less. He's obviously having a good time at work he has plenty of funny stories to tell the family, and there's nothing wrong with each of us During sex, so I dont see the problem. But I need to.