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Q: Sex without condoms ?
asked by: CurlyFry26 on September 25th, 2009
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Hi guys,

I am a 26 year-old female who takes Ortho TriCyclin Lo religiously. I have only had sex with two people in my life, all within the past six months Smile My first partner got tested specifically for me and always used a condom.

My current boyfriend is 28. He was last tested for STDs in 2006, and is a monogamy enthusiast who since then has had just two long-term relationships. Both ended amicably and without any known infidelity. The first was with a girl who had been married, and he was only Partner Number Two for the second girl.

BF has a history of sensation issues w/condoms, and intends to get tested in the near future.

In the meantime, I am interested to hear whether you guys would be comfortable having sex without condoms in this situation. I know there is *some* risk, but then again there is always *some*. We are both very logical folks, and while I want to be smart about this, the only argument I feel comfortable making is one I'd buy myself Smile

Thanks so much.
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Jazzy77
replied on September 25th, 2009
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Well, logically, current boyfriend is asking you to risk your life based on his "sensation issues". I'm not sure what "sensation issues" means, maybe a lack of sensation caused by wearing condoms? You tell me.

If the "sensation issue" is as I think, there is NO FREAKING WAY I'd let him near my vagina without a condom on.

Additionally, if he hasn't ALREADY been tested, I wouldn't touch him with a 10-foot pole.

He "seems" (based on my synopsis of the sensation issues which I admit could be completely wrong) to me to be a wrong person to have unprotected sex with.

You're on the pill so the pregnancy issue is minimized, but the disease issue would be maximized to me because he's probably given the other women in his life the same BS about sensitivity.

Sorry if my attitude seems harsh, but I have had more than one guy try that ploy on me too, and I can just say that if I'm not protected, he doesn't get a dang thing.

Jasmine
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