Marriage 101....listen carefully....Get your husband some help. Does he take medication? Does he take it regularly? Please make sure that he does. You and I both know that it is not normal for your husband to have sex with you in that kind of way. Married couples have INTERCOURSE...it is not fair to you to engage in this kind of sex....he is getting all the pleasure. Again, make sure, make CERTAIN, he takes medicine for schizophrenia. Don't give in to the voices in his head.
You need also to talk to him when you and he are just sitting around having dinner, and not in a sexual situation. Ask him why he thinks that the voices are telling him not to have " normal " sex,and see what he says. Ask him how do you think it makes you feel? Ask him will he be listening to the voices in his head all your married life, and just settle for him masturbating on you ? Good LUck

i agree! medication and therapy!

Hmm. I have schizo-affective and I live with my boyfriend. We've been together for 6 years and have been having sex the whole time. It's kind of hard to really enjoy it sometimes! Mainly because I want to be thin... But sometimes bad feelings can get in the way! Like sometimes I'm really obsessed with celibacy. This is because I've experienced such horrible things that I want to please God etc. But I think I need my boyfriend.. And also my doctors and people I can talk to. Having a boyfriend is a part of life. And so is sex I guess!
You could try going to one of his counseling sessions and asking questions.

You should just try and not have sex ever again, including masterbation.

It will be good for you.

a married couple have a right to have sex, it was made to be a gift to be enjoyed!

oh ya celibacy will probably sort things out

i hope your joking!
i would be frustrated if my husband didnt want to make love to me. celibacy is for single people not married people. in a marriage his body belongs to her and vise versa, their duties is to please each other.
i would be upset if my husband just wants to spill his seeds on my stomach. gross!!!!!

You are calling sex a right? Thats quite strange.
I suppose it's your right.

Have all the sex you like I suppose.

It just isn't all it's cracked up to be, thats all, it's massivily overrated really, not much else to do I suppose though, I guess when your trying to make a life out of a barren boring and bloody wasteland you would do it often.

I can't understand why people like it so much.

And I wonder why these voices are against it so much, mine are also.

P.s. service u, prepare to be frustrated.

i m speaking of what it says in the bible, a women suppose to please her husband and a husband suppose to please his wife.
so this guy isnt pleasing his wife, this is when a lot of ugly things can happen. for example the wife my get frustrated and cheat.
this is why the world is so corrupt because no one follows the bible, or knows what is in the book.
sex can be amazing if it's with the right person, and since you dont think so i m sorry you dont know of such pleasure.
those voices could be demonic trying to destroy marriages. i m not going to get frustrated i love a good debate.

God instituted marriage and the Bible says" Marriage is honorable, and the bed is undefiled.-------------------If a man don't want to have sex with a woman he should never get married! Marriage is normal with sex between husband and wife! If a man don't want to have sex or if he is not phyically able to have sex, then he shouldn't marry a woman only to torment her life! If she can't get sex from him, then she is forced to get it else where! That's all I have to say!!!!