Mrsmf,
I have been positive for 16 years that I know of and got married in 2005. Our relationship begun long time ago as friends but in 2003, we started having sex. We have ALWAYS used condoms even though I have been undetectable for the last ten years and on therapy.
Here is an article that might lift you up. Mine is the one of Minneh and Ryan.
All the best
Muthoni (Mson)
Go to
http://www.positiveside.ca/e/V6I5/Editoria
l_e.htm and then click on Magnetic couples. You'll see it.