Hi Trevor!
So are you dating him? What makes you think he is only wanting sex from you? there is also an age difference and maturity difference there as well, where you come emotionally attached he is more likely not to. Is he seeing other ppl other than you?

so the 28 year old was 26 when you started having sex with hima nd you were 13?? do you not realise this man is a pedophile??

that is true too!

he needs to be reported so other children can be protected!!!!!!!!!

When this started you were 13 and he 26?

This 'relationship' is wrong on so many levels.

You are a child! I suggest you report this to law enforcement and stop seeing him.

You question if he would tire of you? Think about this: Why would an adult male seek to have sex with a child? Why not someone his own age? Maybe he only likes young boys... Again, this is wrong on so many levels.

he needs locking up and putting on the sex offenders register!! and y were u even sexually active at 13????? you really are even still way to young!!!! xxx

I hope you decide to not see this person anymore...Dianna25 you are so right! And it soooo wrong on so many levels lol I could go on for hours!

lol i just dont know what could be going through a man on his ages head, hes just sick and kids like this one should be protected from him, where are the parents in all of this???????

I know, he hasnt written anything back either lol, maybe we scared him off??? This kid is probably emotionally attached now and this pedophile is just using him because he is sick in the head!

28 and 15 is just wrong. I mean it's fun to date a man who knows what to do in the bed, but come on... You can answer one of your questions yourself. If i were a 28 single guy i would be looking for some girl to have a future with, to settle my life and to have kids.

Tell him you want to have kids with him and be with him for the rest of your life, you'll see his reaction.

Then they would need to adopt as right now it is a 15 year old boy with a 28 year old man.

I do hope this 15 year old makes the right decision and reports this monster before he preys on anyone else.

yeah I was about to say that too!

My fault, I don't sense the difference between some of the American names.

Please leave that guy. There is not a single right thing in your relationship.

I didn't come here to be bombarded about how wrong it is and how sick he is. I came here for advice on what to do. And if this is all you have to say I think I'll just let it be.

Well, why don't you ask him about it? The best thing in a good relationship is honesty. Tell him to be blunt about it, because if he really IS using you for just sex, it will affect you in the longrun. It will hurt you more then than it will now, if that's the case.

Good luck, Trev. :]

Is this something that you wanted?
What everybody else is saying in this thread rings very true - this guy reeks of pedophilia!

WAKE UP! You are most likely being taken advantage of! Get out now, and report him!

This man has been abusing you and you dont even know it.You should be with people your age.He is a grown man and you are a kid..that is a sickness and also a perversion...he is just moving on to the next little boy.Call the cops on him.Please,for the sake of the next kid,report him to the police.

Have to agree here. He experimented with you and got away with it. So much so that you protect him and encourage him and are scared to lose him. He is a pedophile and your getting to old for him. What next? He will have you recruiting on the playground? Im pretty sure you think your in love with him but if you didn't doubt his intentions you wouldn't be here. At least you have the power to save the next little boy from all the pain and heartache and emotional turmoil so please think about that and do the right thing... turn him in to the authorities.

Hi there. Sorry you are going through so much, and I know it’s not easy to read some of these posts.

It sounds like you are having doubts within yourself. Most of the time…no all the time…our intuitions are correct. You wouldn’t be here if you were sure this was the right thing for you. I believe age is just a number…to a certain degree. I too was a 14 yr girl w/a 23 yr old man. Later I found out he was 26. Well he told me all I wanted to hear and used me for sex for 3 years. He played so many mind games to keep me where he wanted me. It took me just as long to rebuild myself. At 14-15 we are still too young to be in a serious relationship like this. You should date people closer to your age until you are a little older like 17 or 18. I truly think that mentally we arent equipped to handle all the decisions and choices that come with a sexually committed relationship.

Its even worse that this man is so old. And he probably knows exactly what hes doing. Does he say he loves you? Does he say he wants to be with you? Is he proud of your relationship? Does he tell his friends about you? Are you open with your parents and friends? Probably not. That’s because he is hiding the truth. And that is only going to hurt you in the end. Please dump this man ASAP and find someone you can grown with and be young with. Have carefree (protected) sex and not be part of some sadistic mans fantasy’s. Trust me the shame and guilt can destroy you. I wish you the best!