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Q: Sex & Porn...do I satisfy him?
asked by: greeneyes33 on July 11th, 2009
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My man still watches porn after we have sex twice a day. I'm really worried I'm not satisfying him.. or is this just normal with men?
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coda
replied on July 11th, 2009
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not normal, what is he looking at
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ServiceU
replied on July 11th, 2009
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i watch porn with my boyfriend. i think he will get tired of it, and find something else to occupy himself.
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W0LF
replied on July 12th, 2009
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Yeah normal. Pornography for many men fills a need that a partner doesn't be it a perversion he doesn't want to entertain with his partner or a natural instinct for variety. Watching Porn is probably preferable to you than his going out and doing those things with other women. Also very normal for you to feel a bit jealous that he's getting pleasure from somewhere else. Talk to him about your feelings and try to understand why he's watching porn. Maybe it's something you could share that will strengthen your relationship or maybe there's an obstacle in your intimacy that neither of you are acknowledging that it will help you both get around.
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greeneyes33
replied on July 14th, 2009
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He watches one girl masturbating herself.
That's it.
No lesbians
No girl and guy
Just one girl pleasing herself....



Makes me wonder ???
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JavaMissus
replied on July 14th, 2009
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I believe you satisfy him, but he needs this extra pacifier in life...Mine doesn't and never has...Would I be jealous?....Not in the least...Would I be PO?...You have no idea....Not because of the other women, but because of this hunger for looking at another woman or man's sexual parts still excites him...To me this is a boys and growing up thing....Possibly couples who need a sexual turn on to have sex...They just can't do it without it...Maybe older men who desire youth and use it to masturbate to...With our being in love and filled with passion for each other, it would spoil a special part of who we are...If he wanted to do Porn, he can take any kind of picture of me that he wants to...All of us women wear the same outfit...I know of too much heartbreak from this wildly loved money making industry to waste my words on it....It's just not our bag....
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W0LF
replied on July 14th, 2009
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I'm not much for psycho analysis but that sounds like a fetish of his. Especially if the porn is consistently the same subject matter. Have you offerred to let him watch you masturbate?

If he's strongly opposed it it. Don't be too upset. one of the most common reasons men in relationships continue to watch porn is because of a dichotomy between fantasy and reality. Most men need the stability of a good woman in their relationship and feel a strong desire to treat her as a thing to be protected and kept pure. However conversely they also have a desire for a woman who is filthilly debased and hyper-sexual. Not unlike the Madonna/prostitute complex. For a lot of these men, if their significant other behaved like the women he drewls over in porn it would horrify him.

Offer to be his porn star (In real life, no filming) if he freaks out about his wife masterbating in front of him, tell him he needs to get over it, you are not willing to compete against his sexual fantasies for his attention. Even if it only means being close with him when he watches porn and sharing that moment with him you're still not being locked out of that part of his sex life.
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