if he rushes, gets to it and is quite harsh, and just cares about himself and his pleasure mainley its just sex.
if he takes his time, kisses your lips and body, nibbles.touches you, your face, then i think its pretty loving
but it depends on the guy, there are some men that completely seperate love from sex.
then there are the special kind, that cannot have unloving sex ( my boyfriend

he is always so considerate, caring, effectionate and loving all the time, i kind of feel like i have taken him for granted. am such a lucky girl