Me and My boyfriend have been together for over 3 mon.He is recently divorce, He was married for 21 years to the same women. And I\'m still married but seperated, He has be divorced for 3 years he has went on dates but he has not had sex with anyone else up to this point. The other night we had sex for the first time, He could not get an erection and he told me that he did not feel anything. He also told me that he does not feel anything when we Kiss. He thinks its are chemistry, I fell the same way when we had sex it has been 5 years for me I did not feel anything but nerves, We have such a awesome relationship we get alone, We get alone we have so much in common. Sex is the only problem for us we are both 47 yrs. old . PLEASE HELP
Hi, and thanks for your medical question on eHealth forum!
Well, it is possible to have a lot in common and yet not be sexually attracted to one another. Also it is possible that you both are not yet ready to accept another partner as you both did not have sex after leaving your previous one.
This is something you will have to mutually decide and carry forward and it may not necessarily mean that you both have become impotent. Hope this helps. Take care!
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