|srprzy85, When looking at female orgasm issues, it is useful to figure out if you have an orgasm problem (primary anorgasmia), or just an intercourse problem (secondary anorgasmia).
These two things are treated and resolved in different ways. For primary anorgasmia you must be taught how to orgasm. For secondary anorgasmia you already know how to orgasm and you must be taught the techniques on how to also orgasm during intercourse.
Do you orgasm when you masturbate?