|I have been sexually active for about three-four years now (I'm 20, I started at 17) and no matter what I do, it still seems to hurt and sometimes incredibly bad.
I never had the experience of "popping a cherry", there was never blood or anything of that nature the first time, or even times after that of having sex. The first time I visited the gyno he refused to do a pap smear because my hymen was intact, even though I had already had sex at that point. I assumed that was my problem up until my next yearly visit, where a pap smear was preformed, and the doctor made no mention of my hymen still being intact.
I just don't know what to do. It's not that sex doesn't feel good, because sometimes it does. But other times it's just painful and I feel horrible because I can't get into things for my partner because I'm attempting to avoid the pain. If anyone has any advice, please let me know!