Everyone is different when it comes to the time of
getting an orgasm some will last a few minutes and some longer.
You might be one who can last a long time before cumming
so probably something women look for in a man or wish for.
Sounds like maybe you are not aroused enough and may need
to meet someone or checkout some porn but if you are 25
and not masturbated I have a feeling you will not like porn.
If you are having wet dreams it sounds like you need some kind of sexual relief.
And most men masturbate to find this relief.