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Q: sex gets painful
asked by: xXCupidXx on May 4th, 2008
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The first 11 times I had sex, my cherry didnt pop in ANY of those times, and the sex was extremely painful...

And then when i started having sex with the guy im with now [my fiance], he finally popped my cherry during our 4th time...
After that, sex was GREAT...
But then, I moved to where I am now, and I only get to see him maybe once every month...
And now sex is back to feeling like I'm a virgin everytime...
The last time I came to visit him, we had sex 5 times [I was there for day and a half]
He's moving up here this summer, but I have no idea if sex is gonna be as good anymore, because i have no idea why it hurts to begin with...

After about 5 minutes after we start having sex, it feels okay, and then a little bit later, it goes back to feeling painful again, and we stop...

Just wondering if this happens to anyone else besides me...
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elle2389
replied on May 4th, 2008
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Been there,
Lube is the answer!
Stop having sex until you feel back to normal. When the two of you start having sex again, make sure to use lube before (and during, if necessary!).
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mommyglamour
replied on May 5th, 2008
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yea, and see if you can get him to go down on you for atleast 30minutes to relax and warm you up for it...then you might not need any lube at all!
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Yorick
replied on May 5th, 2008
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My wife used Sentia pills to be able to have enough lube. Now she doesn't feel pain during intercourse. She began feeling orgasms.
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xXCupidXx
replied on May 5th, 2008
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wow..thanks..lol...ill try that then...
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Yorick
replied on May 11th, 2008
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Yea I know from my wife that Sentia is a very popular supplement among women.
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joycyn.anderson
replied on May 11th, 2008
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Allergic reaction and itching after intercourse
I am 48 years old female. I was married for 13 years. During the time of my 13 year marriage, when I was engaged in sex with my husband, I was extremely lubricated. I did not suffer from any sexual pain or malfunction that I can recall. In 2001 I became devorced and I had an hystorectomy. I was not sexually active after this surgery for about 7 years. In 2008, I met a very nice guy friend. We have been sexually active. Initially the sex was good, and still is. However, one month into the relationship, I have been having allergic reactions after having sex. The sensation seems to start in my vagina clitoris area, then it goes all over my body and all my moist areas. I get an itchy, prickly, warm, pulsating irritated feeling all over my skin. I have gotten a thorough checkup by my OB-GYN, and my general practitioner has given me a complete blood workup. All the tests have come up well. I dont know what to do. My friend is a really nice guy, and he is a wonderful help to me. We are planning to get married soon. However the itching concerns I have almost everytime we have sex has really puts a strain on our relationship. I want to know if I am too sensitive in my vagina and what I can do to overcome this sensitivity.
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run4life10
replied on May 11th, 2008
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Do you use condoms? If so, you may be allergic to latex. Or if he comes inside of you, you may be allergic to his semen. When you say it's all over your skin, do you mean everywhere?
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LeahBia07
replied on May 23rd, 2008
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I kno exactly wut u mean. My fiance is also distant from me. I c him once a month. wen i do c him n we have sex it feels like he's takin my virginity all over again. I think its because u as well as me, dont get any all the time so u tighten back up. We will do it twice then after tht it starts killin me and it takes a few minutes just 2 get it n. I try 2 stay as lubed up as possible. Dont just try 2 push thru the pain. i tried it and got little cuts up there. ouch! not fun, especially wen u pee! So just lube up it really helps.
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LeahBia07
replied on May 23rd, 2008
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Help!
I am engaged and i dont get 2 c my fiance 2 often. Its like once a month. So wen i do get 2 c him and we have sex, im fine the 1st 2 or 3 times. After tht it starts 2 hurt, especially wen i pee, like i have little cuts up there. W Crying or Very sad ut is the best lube? Because i get UTIs very easily and i need something tht wont cause 1. And also, how do i prevent myself from getting a UTI after sex? cause it almost always happens. Is there anythin i can do other then going 2 the bathroom rite after, and not letting him put it in my butt then my vagina. I need 2 kno wut more i can do???
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