i think if something turned my boyfriend on and he told me i'd be willing to try it so long as it doesn't involve another person and as you said wasn't painful..it turns me on to see him turned on..so whatever works!

She will probably be excited to try something new with you and FOR you. Everyone wants to please, right?

I had a wee-little fetish which I was desperately nervous to tell my boyfriend about. The stlye I used to bring it up to him was "Reverse-phycologyish"...

I asked him if he had any in order to hype down my fetish.

I learned two new fetishes from him that day (BONUS)

Perhaps you could even tell her you have a fetish that you want to let her in on, but ask her to tell you something personal first.

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I would not worry so much if i was you , the sooner you let her know the better.My boy told me when we first started dating .it was really strange for me cause i never heard of such a thing before , but it's not scary or anything.You can start by massaging her feet when you two are in a intimate situation , and then start telling her how beautiful,feminine you think her feet are and how everything about her turns you on...yes eaven her feet!she'll be flattered ,I'm sure.
My boyfriend and I were talking about what turned each other on . what our sexual fantasies were and what we would like to do to each other. Then he told me about how much he loved the fact that i put my feet on him wile we were having sex...it ended up with me giving him a "foot job" !