hi guys, i'm 28 and have had a few problems the last year or two with my girlfriend. As a young guy I was a bit of an fool to put it mildly. I was a bit self obsessed, would sleep around and I also took anabolic steroids. I had no problems in the erection department and I could quite easily control my ejaculations, it was never a problem.

after growing up and a lot of soul searching I have tried to change my life around and I feel I have to an extent. I am engaged to a great girl, I'm truely in love and it feels great. My problem is that my sex drive is no longer there like before and when I am having sex I feel like its a constant battle to not "shoot my load" as some would put it.

I'm not sure if its down to being with a girl I really care about and anxious to have a good sex life with her, I can often make her climax but sometimes it is a problem. I'm not sure if taking the steroids has caused me to lose my sex drive and if this can be reversed. Its not just the sex drive though, I find it hard to get motivated to do all sorts of things, like train regularly at the gym. It was never a problem before and I worry that sometimes I would rather just talk to her than have sex, she is gorgeous and I'm very attracted to her.

I have definately gone through a stage of suffering from depression but I try my best to stay positive and look at all the great things going on in my life but any advice would be greatly appreciated. My biggest worry is that taking sustanon and nandrolone a few years ago has caused my body to some how stop being that of anormal red blooded male. Am I just worrying about nothing?