hi guys, i'm 28 and have had a few
problems the last year or two with my
girlfriend. As a young guy I was a bit of
an fool to put it mildly. I was a bit self
obsessed, would sleep around and I also
took anabolic steroids. I had no problems
in the erection department and I could
quite easily control my ejaculations, it
was never a problem.
after growing up and a lot of soul
searching I have tried to change my life
around and I feel I have to an extent. I
am engaged to a great girl, I'm truely in
love and it feels great. My problem is
that my sex drive is no longer there like
before and when I am having sex I feel
like its a constant battle to not "shoot
my load" as some would put it.
I'm not sure if its down to being with a
girl I really care about and anxious to
have a good sex life with her, I can often
make her climax but sometimes it is a
problem. I'm not sure if taking the
steroids has caused me to lose my sex
drive and if this can be reversed. Its not
just the sex drive though, I find it hard
to get motivated to do all sorts of
things, like train regularly at the gym.
It was never a problem before and I worry
that sometimes I would rather just talk to
her than have sex, she is gorgeous and I'm
very attracted to her.
I have definately gone through a stage of
suffering from depression but I try my
best to stay positive and look at all the
great things going on in my life but any
advice would be greatly appreciated. My
biggest worry is that taking sustanon and
nandrolone a few years ago has caused my
body to some how stop being that of
anormal red blooded male. Am I just
worrying about nothing?