Sex doesn't last long enough Posted: 03-02-08 22:46pm
thats basically it im seventeen and ive
been having sex for like 2 months and it
lasts me 5 minutes at most 2 minutes at
least unless i do it again quickly after
this really sucks any advice?
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Reptar
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Posted: 03-04-08 10:11am
Are you circumcised? Do you wear condoms?
These can both desensitize you, as well as
other creams and lotions on the market.
The only other thing I can think of is
premature ejaculation. I'd try the other
things first though, because you're still
young and really just starting to have
sex. PE is a manageable condition and
there are still things to help out. Your
best bet is to keep having sex as you'll
soon enough become less sensitive.
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spencerbobby
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k Posted: 03-04-08 17:26pm
well i guess so thats what im told but ive
seen virtually zero improvement and iam
circumsized and i always use condoms
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Pulsefidelity
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Joined: 11 Feb 2008 Posts: 9
Posted: 03-04-08 18:45pm
After time you might last longer. I have
somewhat the same problem. The first time
with my girlfriend, didn't get past 5min.
After the usual would be 10min.
We had sex frequently, the average would
be 10-15min which is not long compared to
most guys I've heard of.
But every now and then (once a week, or
once every two weeks) there would be a
random day where I'll last quite a long
time... 30min+. Once in the past five
months I went up to an hour. But that was
rare. Usually I don't get past 20min.
But again, at first (the first month) I
wouldn't get past 10min.
Things that affect it (from what I've
noticed) are nutrition. (High zinc/wheat
diet help) Exercise (cardio exercise helps
a lot, running, cycling, swimming,
in-line.) And most important, the
position.
Doggy style usually tends to cut down
time. Missionary as well, but that mostly
depends at your speed. A position that I
find comfortable for both of us
(especially pleasing to her) that helps
you last, but still gives speed, is
missionary but with her legs over your
shoulder (not sure what it's called.)
But give it a try.
One more thing, even though I'm not so
sure this does much but it might, the
thinner the condoms the more sensitive you
are. So try using ribbed or just normal
condoms to lower your sensitivity.
They sell condoms (durex brand) that have
this lubricant that helps you last longer.
Though I've never tried it, but I'm sure
it works cause it's been in the market for
sometime.
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sharpshooter153
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Joined: 14 Mar 2008 Posts: 10
Friends lend me your ears Posted: 03-14-08 17:47pm
Hey guys I can totally empathise with you
chaps, the whole PE thing is driving me
insane. Check out my blog
prematureejaculation.blog.co.uk it's a
lighthearted look at the problem and
solutions. Please feel free to add
comments and words of wisdom - Craig
