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Q: sex doesn't feel good

asked by: Armstrc5c on July 20th, 2008

New User

I've been sexually active with two boyfriends now and have had sexual intercourse a number of times with both men. However it has never felt good! Most of the time it just it sore on the outside afterwards (almost like a rug burn). And during it does not feel good! I've tried everything, different positions, speeds etc. It's becoming a problem with my partner now because he feels he cannot please me sexually. It is me? Is there something wrong with me? Please if anyone can help me. I really appreciate it.

Replies(5)

stickyicky

replied on July 20th, 2008

Experienced User

Believe it or not, a lot of women "fake orgasms." I've heard from a lot of people that sex really isn't good to them unless they love the one they're actually having sex with; unless there is an actual true connection...

I know you say they were both your boyfriends, but do you actually love them? Do you feel connected to them?

Lilly Ivy

replied on July 21st, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

if it feels like you are getting rug burn, I'd suggest some lube. There is no such thing as too much lube Wink

Sydney123456

replied on July 21st, 2008

Experienced User

With the symptoms you've been explaning, I will give you this advice: get lube. Apply it whenever you need it during sex.

The fun thing about lube is that is comes in all types...to enhance sex for both YOU and YOUR PARTNER!

I would also spend a lot of time on foreplay (if you haven't been already). Women get dry mighty quick if foreplay isn't well done.

Good luck!

ironicusername

replied on July 23rd, 2008

New User

is it not good, or is it painful?

emlayy78

replied on September 21st, 2009

New User

I have the same problem, its not necessarily painful, its just that intercourse doesn'tfeel good at all. Very frustrating.

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