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sex is ok 50% of the time but the other is kinda painfull and i don't know why im wet enough it just feels like its too hard or something lol i dont really know how to explain
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replied September 25th, 2008
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I'm going to scoot this over to Women's Sexual Health Smile

So is it the begining part of sex that hurts (penis entering) or the end part? Is the pain towards the opening of your vagina or towards the back. Have you ever experienced bleeding after/during sex? Do you get cramps when you have sex?

What's too hard?
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replied September 25th, 2008
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no the begining is fine its the thrusting that hurts and hes not too rough either
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replied September 25th, 2008
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I can't even begin to help if I can't narrow things down a little. Wink

Is the pain in the opening or back of your vagina?
Have you experienced bleeding during/after sex?
Do you ever get a cramping feeling during or after sex?
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replied September 25th, 2008
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in the middle no bleeding cramps yes not all the time tho once in a while
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replied September 26th, 2008
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Does the pain go away after you shift positions a little and does it hurt most when he enters all the way?

It sounds like he's hitting your cervix or even an ovary. It hurts like crazy</>, but it's fairly easy to avoid if you're careful. I'm not saying he's rough with you, but certain positions can be painful for some women no matter how gentle the man is. The easy way to fix this is by remembering and avoiding any painful position you were in, sometimes it's just a matter of shifting your hips. Make sure your guy is aware of where it hurts so he can remember to either avoid the position as well, or remember not to thrust in the entire way when you're like that.

I also saw that you are having lubrication problems, and that can makes things pretty painful as well.
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replied October 2nd, 2008
Is it the first time?
It is a nature act to have sex but be sure the relationship. At the first time, did you get wet enought before inserting. Did your boy firend use a condom with lubircant?

Yours size and his size may be alittle problem for the pain but natually, vargina can extend as big as a head of baby.

So, having with your boy friend will be better if he learn how to do the gentel sex. He may rush to have sex before you are ready.

Be sure get married with him after sex and be sure he love you more than having sex for fun, if not he will leave you and have sex with the others
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replied October 2nd, 2008
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we have been together for almost a year its not our first time we have had sex alot u dont know what your talking about and its hard to understand your typing you need to use spell check
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